ORGANIZING A FAMILY VISIT

Is it really possible to organize a family visit?  I think the answer is “somewhat”.  Travel schedules, health, interests, etc., can vary within a larger group of people.  But, you can try to think ahead and be prepared.  For our recent family visit we did our best to stock the pantry, freezer, and refrigerator before our family arrived.  The first couple of days we were able to do all the meals while our family rested and transitioned from travel.  Because our youngest grandchild is now 11, we were able to switch to everyone participating in meal preparations and entertainment.  Teams of 2 signed up for snacks, lunch, or evening meals, and made their shopping lists.  We took them to the store and paid for what they needed.  We ate well!  And we were eating leftovers long after they went home.  Sharing clean-up was also a big help, even though we are still looking for a few items that might have been put away in unexpected places.  With a park nearby and teenagers coming, we made sure we had a basketball and soccer ball ready for use, along with our closet full of table games.

Was it still chaotic?  YES!  Our dryer died just before their arrival and we had to make a quick decision on new laundry appliances and arrange for their rapid installation.  Sleep schedules varied.  Who wanted to go on what day-trips varied and were limited somewhat by car availability.  Health issues popped up.  Floors were covered with blankets and pillows and the dog kept stealing socks.  Sounds a lot like real family life to me, and I’m a thankful and happy grandma!